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Today was so simple it almost doesn’t sound worth writing about.

JP and I loaded up our laptops and headed to the coffee shop hosting my art show, determined to spend the afternoon getting things done. We found a table outside because the weather practically demanded it. One of those early summer days that feels like an apology for every gray afternoon that came before it.

 

The sun settled onto our shoulders. Birds argued somewhere nearby. Ice clinked in glasses. People wandered past carrying little pieces of their own lives.

 

Then Erin joined us.

 

And just like that, the day shifted.

 

Not dramatically. Not all at once. It simply softened around the edges.

 

The work became secondary. The conversation became the event.

 

We sat outside talking beneath the same sky that had everybody lingering a little longer than usual. About life. About nothing. About things that matter deeply and things that absolutely don’t. The sort of conversation that never seems to follow a straight line but somehow arrives exactly where it’s supposed to.

 

Eventually we traded coffee for cocktails and another patio for another patch of sunshine.

 

There is something so lovely about watching a day unfold without trying to improve it.

 

Nobody needed entertainment.

 

Nobody needed a plan.

 

Nobody was documenting every second for proof that we were having fun.

 

We were just there.

 

Three women at an outdoor table, letting the afternoon happen.

 

I remember looking around at one point—the warmth of the glass in my hand, the lazy movement of people walking by, JP laughing at something ridiculous, Erin halfway through a story—and thinking how strange it is that these are the moments that end up mattering.

 

Not the big ones.

 

Not the life-changing ones.

 

The tiny afternoons tucked between obligations.

 

The ones that never make the highlight reel.

 

The ones that ask absolutely nothing of you except that you notice them while they’re happening.

 

And for a little while today, I did.

 

I noticed the sunlight.

 

I noticed my friends.

 

I noticed how lucky I felt.

 

That’s all.

 

But sometimes that’s everything.

12. 2026

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